Do what moves you. Say what you feel. Don't be afraid to be who you are based on some notion of what is acceptable behavior and what's not.
I guarantee you that every person of color in this country has faced an indignity from the ridiculous, to the grotesque, to the sometimes fatal, at some point - in the last couple hours - because of their skin color.
Race is there and it is a constant. You’re tired of hearing about it? Imagine how fucking exhausting it is living it.
male game designer: hey maybe we should treat women like people
male gamer: how could you say these things... i trusted you... i have lost a hero on this day